Well you all might be thinking that how come this guy is back to blogging wasn’t he supposed to get off from it as he stated in his last post.
Yeah. The boy thought so but he realised that there was something needed to be shared so that all can benefit.
So he’s back.
Okay, now let us get back to the topic.
Have you heard this word.
Don’t you have feelings for me?
This guy doesn’t have any feelings.
These are some sentences or dialogues which we generally hear or speak.
So let’s get deep into this.
With analysis being my partner I’m sure there will be some insights 😛
So what are feelings?
Okay. Let’s think.
That sensation in heart. That gratification in mind. That relief or fear. That sensory tingling. That anxiety or That sadness.
Well to be honest there are many ways to describe.
Why I’m describing feelings in this post?
What’s my purpose?
These might be questions in your mind.
Okay. Let’s see.
Today. Everyone of us makes decisions on the basis of feelings. Feelings have become are guide rather than our soul.
If we feel not to study. We don’t study and Waste our time in futile aspects.
If we feel to smoke. We smoke and harm our health.
If we feel to go out. We go out and waste our time in wandering.
This is who we are. Yes. A human being is being a slave to his thoughts and those accompanying sensations.
Let’s find some examples from our day to day lives.
Okay. One by one.
First. Success and Failure.
Oh. Have you felt relieved when you pass your exams and throw the old books and say that I don’t have to read them again.
And how did you feel when there was an exam next day?
Were you able to study well because of this??
I don’t know. You decide.
So you studied just to end those exams and get that temporary feeling of satisfaction that your exams are over now you would enjoy.
Okay. What happens when your exams end and two or three days have passed?
Feeling bored. Feeling bad.
How can you feel bored?
Your exams have ended. How can you feel bored? (haha :P)
So in order to feel the satisfaction of that your exams over, you made the purpose of examination to be just to get relieved from it. You made it your enemy. Just because you wanted to end them.
But, have you gone beyond that feeling and thought why exams were there.
They are there to test your knowledge and skill. Those knowledge and skills which will make you and your society better in coming days.
And what you did. In order to feel that temporary pleasure of some time you made examination just a thing to end.
Okay second example.
A poor rickshaw wala (cart driver) hit my car.
And broke something off.
What should I do?
Most of you might think that I should take money from him or slap him.
But, should I?
What would taking money from him do?
It would make me happy that there was no loss to me and I’m perfectly fine.
Just a relief that I didn’t have to pay my money. Just a relief that my money wasn’t spent.
But have you thought after that?
That guy. (rickshawala) He travelled whole day in scorching heat to earn 1/10 of your daily income to feed his children and wife.
And because of some accident he has to pay money which is so huge that you can’t even think what impact can it play on his day’s work.
He won’t be able to have food or save money.
Or even from saved money he would have to give it you.
Then there you are. Earning Lakh rupees per month and then also asking money from him.
Just to feel relieved that money isn’t from your pocket.
(I’m not saying that you don’t ask for what’s yours, but do look at the cause and the person. Is the person financially stable? Was it an accident or he did deliberately. Please do think and then act)
Okay. So these days porn and lot’s of things are available easily.
Now. What happens?
We watch porn. Then we jerk off.
Yes don’t we.
Well just to attain that glimpse of feeling which we attain in that process.
It’s nothing more. Just to feel that 5/10 sec nirvana,we have made our girls objects for pleasure.
We have made all those women who helped us. Who raised us. Who supported us to an mere object just to attain that seconds pleasure.
These days I have seen people faking relationships to have that pleasure.
It means that the girl/boy who loved you for years is nothing more for you than to attain that pleasure.
Oh pastry. Doctor told me Not to eat. But nothing will happen.
Eats pastry. Derives pleasure. Harms her health for week.
Isn’t this common?
So friends. These were some examples. Now I will tell you How these things happen.
So here it is.
Thought (wrong) – – – – – – Intellect – – – – No action.
Here we know that thoughts are wrong and we know that we don’t have to act on them.
Thought(wrong) + Feelings – – – – – Confused Intellect – – – – – – – Wrong action.
See what happens.
How we have become slaves to our feelings?
In order to feel for some seconds or days. We destroy our real purpose.
Well what to do then?
Experience. Know what’s right and wrong. Think. Be aware of your feelings and make sure that you don’t give in to them. Always keep in mind feelings are nothing. They are no compass to right decisions.
So what’s the compass.
The compass is your intellect and your knowledge or experience.
Moreover it’s unconditional love. Some of you might think that love is also feeling. Nope. Unconditional love isn’t a feeling. It’s bliss. It’s nothing else. When you are in bliss. There is nothing you need externally. There are no temporary pleasures that can match this bliss.
And this bliss is what you are?
This is which is permanent and beyond your bodily sensations and ego gratification.
So from now on.
Whenever these feelings arise. Whenever you feel. Just check and ask Am I going towards a life of pain and struggle.
Then that’s the moment you can detach yourself and choose the path of unconditional love or bliss.
It’s your choice.
A life of permanent pain disguised as temporary pleasures or a life of heroism and bliss.